It seems the standard of being a man has drastically declined. Today what we allow to be called a man back in our Grandparents day would have been a laughing stock. Men today are obsessed with the way they look, the clothes they wear, and the car they drive. They have no care about what they are, it is all about the image. Men use to be providers... hunters... gatherers. Todays man is a testosterone filled woman.
Now we can look in many places in order to pass blame for this but lets start at home. Ladies you have to raise the standards of what you consider a man. If you do that then men will raise the standard of what they have to do in order to attract you. Ladies stop hyping up the men who wear nice clothes and drive nice cars, the impression is all I need is nice clothes and a nice car then I will get your attention. Start looking at brothers who are doing things with there lives. Find the Sexy in a 401K retirement plan. Ask the brother what his 5 year goal is. These are the things that make a difference. These are the things that a Man in todays society should be able to offer. These are the things that will eventually make you happy in the future. Not the 1995 q45 infinity that he drove in 97...Man that ride was clean, while today you watch him stand at the bus stop waiting for his ride to the security job that he has down at the harbor.
Expect more from the men you allow into your life and you will see men start to change what is important to them. You are the catalyst that brings about change.
Now we can look in many places in order to pass blame for this but lets start at home. Ladies you have to raise the standards of what you consider a man. If you do that then men will raise the standard of what they have to do in order to attract you. Ladies stop hyping up the men who wear nice clothes and drive nice cars, the impression is all I need is nice clothes and a nice car then I will get your attention. Start looking at brothers who are doing things with there lives. Find the Sexy in a 401K retirement plan. Ask the brother what his 5 year goal is. These are the things that make a difference. These are the things that a Man in todays society should be able to offer. These are the things that will eventually make you happy in the future. Not the 1995 q45 infinity that he drove in 97...Man that ride was clean, while today you watch him stand at the bus stop waiting for his ride to the security job that he has down at the harbor.
Expect more from the men you allow into your life and you will see men start to change what is important to them. You are the catalyst that brings about change.
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